Increasing awareness of coercive control

Source: Northern Territory Police and Fire Services

People enduring coercive control can feel scared and unable to leave their partner.

Trigger warning: this story discusses domestic violence.


In brief:

  • Coercive control is when someone uses patterns of abusive behaviour against another person.
  • The abuse can be both physical and non-physical.
  • If you, or someone you know is experiencing coercive control, you can get help.

The ACT Government is working to increase awareness and education around coercive control.

Coercive control is when someone uses patterns of abusive behaviour against another person.

People enduring coercive control can feel scared and unable to leave their partner.

Understanding coercive control

The abuse can be both physical and non-physical, including:

  • controlling who a person sees, what they wear, and where they go
  • tracking everything a person does
  • controlling a person’s finances, medicine, food or exercise
  • regularly criticising or blaming a person, so they doubt themselves
  • forcing someone to have sex or do sexual things
  • stopping a person from following their religion or cultural practices
  • threatening a person, their children, family or friends.

Coercive control often underpins cases of family and domestic violence in our community. Abuse can also be targeted and subtle, and someone may not always know they are experiencing coercive control.

Technology-facilitated coercive control

Someone using coercive control may use digital technology as part of their abuse.

This can include:

  • making repeated abusive, threatening or unwanted messages or calls
  • tracking someone’s location
  • checking who someone talks to online or over the phone
  • creating fake social media accounts and/or making hurtful or false posts about someone
  • controlling internet accounts or locking someone out of them – such as Wi-Fi, email, social media or banking
  • making, sharing or threatening to share intimate videos of someone without their permission
  • using cameras or recording devices to spy on someone.

The Australian Government has developed the National Principles to Address Coercive Control in Family and Domestic Violence.

The National Principles aim to create a shared understanding of coercive control and increase awareness of the issue.

Read more about the seven National Principles.

Find support

If you, or someone you know is experiencing coercive control, you can get help.

1800RESPECT is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

You can get free counselling, information, and support:

  • call 1800RESPECT (1800 732 732)
  • visit 1800respect.org.au.

There are also many other domestic, family or sexual violence specialist services available. Find a full list here.

For more information about coercive control and support, and resources including videos and factsheets, visit https://bit.ly/3RFvrR4.


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